Ok people , after 8 years of Chinese here is what I managed to wrap my head around :)
Chinese is difficult like crazy ( it really is) I am not joking but it is so interesting and so different that everything else that you will just fall for it. We had something that we said to all the new Rockies who came to Beijing ,, you will love or you will hate it , you do not stay in between, you might learn to tolerate it but never love it :) ) I LOVED it , still do :) ( don't get me wrong I loved it but still hit my head on the wall a dozen times or so )
Now back on Chinese :) you need to be honest with yourself , do you really want to learn it , cause it's not going to be easy, you will have to literally glue your butt to the chair at your desk every day and memorize a bunch of characters. They won't make any sense in the beginning, and I am not even gonna start talking about tones, Chinese has 4, you change the 1 into 4 and you will swear instead of saying ''mum'', Different are the sounds as well , you get one wrong you might tell you friend that she is a'' pretty cow'' instead of a'' pretty woman''.......yeah not nice.....:) I actually said once that I was a ''cow ''not a ''woman''......laughing so loud now !!!!!
So people, please believe me it's difficult you will have to go through the whole process of learning and memorizing by heart how to write step by step , the tones and the pronunciation. I am not trying to scare you just give you a heads up :) If you do manage to hold on and stay fast the feeling you get after you memorize your first few hundred characters and your basic conversation.....it's ......complete pride and awesomeness :)
Chinese it's very difficult but NOT impossible to learn, you just need to be stubborn like a mule and not give up. It's worth it , so worth it!!!!
VERY IMPORTANT GET A TEACHER WHO IS PATIENT AND NICE ..........Chinese will seem way less difficult :)
晚安
Good night !!